"asexuals can and often do enjoy sex, attraction and libido are different!" yea that’s nice, but let’s not ignore the fact that the majority of aces ARE sex-aversive. like can we pls not make the ace community as sex normative as literally every other single fucking community out there. can we please.
Way way too much ace shit I see on tumblr is all about how “it’s okay! They can usually tolerate sex!!” and wow, that is just so gross